Several years ago I visited Morocco with a small group of like minded travelers from London, whom I had never met before. We all boarded a plane from Gatwick and took the surprisingly short (and astonishingly cheap) journey to Marrakesh, Morocco. I wrote about the 5 Days in Morrocco experience in depth in another post, but I wanted to highlight one of my fondest memories from that trip that included local experiences in Morocco.
The trip I took would definitely be classified as “once in a lifetime” in my books; it was a sprawling journey that took me from the exotic souks of Marrakesh, to the charming oasis in Dades Valley, and I even spent a night in the Sahara Desert sleeping under the stars. Every moment of the trip provided a story to tell later. Perhaps that’s why my blog post on Morocco is so wordy and much too long. Yet none remained with me quite as sigifnicantly as this one.
On a trip filled with so many memories and once in a lifetime moments, it is incredible that this simple interaction is what has stood out the most vividly in my memory.
A Village in Rural Morocco
The sun had set as we prepared to head out for a walk down the single road in the town we were staying in. We had arrived just as the sunlight had begun to fade, dipping behind the nearby mountains, and checked into our hotels. It had taken an hour or more to cross the winding roads in this mountainous region to reach our destination for the night, and my face had been plastered to the glass window of our minibus.
We would be eating at the hotels that evening but had been informed it was not ready. Therefore we opted to take a short walk in the village to pass the time and appreciate the view of the stars. Since most of us lived in London we did not often get a chance to gaze upon the stars.
The local population were friendly as we walked through the town, but not overly so. At one point I had trailed a few feet off of the back of the group when a local woman approached me. She had been standing at a storefront with another woman when she had stepped towards the road and simply said:
“Bonsoir, ca va?” (Good evening, how are you?)
I had taken almost 8 years of French classes throughout my formal education, and it was time to put all of it to work. I reached deep in my memories of studies and replied. “Bien, merci, et vu?” Polite, a little formal, but I had at least not butchered the prononciation; mentally I declared this a win for hours of study I never thought I’d use again.
The next question was a little harder, pushed my French a bit further to the limits, but she spoke slowly and simply so I could follow: Why were we visiting the village?
The question took me by surprise. In Marrakesh I had some encounters with local women who were trying to aggressively sell me goods. Though this woman stood before a shop there was no indication she was trying to draw me into it. In fact it looked as if they were closing up for the evening. Interested in the turn in the conversation I smiled and engaged, while several of my group hung back to watch the interactions.
My french was abismally poor; I should have immediately messaged my old french teacher and apologized for failing to leverage the very good education she had given me. I couldn’t find the right tense for anything, so I simply spoke in present tense, but somehow managed to have a conversation and express myself. I admit, a lot of gesturing and hand motions filled the gaps that were left by my memory and lack of vocabularly.
I explained in rudimentarily spoken French and exaggerated gestering, that we were staying the night in a nearby hotel. She knew the name when I mentioned it and called it beautiful (it was).
Next she asked where wee were from. Finally, a question I had been trained to answere in 6th grade French! “Nous habbitons à Londres” (We live in London). She exclaimed her surprise at how far away we had come, and asked again why we were visiting her village.
I explained that we were visiting her beautful country and had come from Marrakesh that morning. We had seen many wonderful things. And tomorrow we would travel to the famous Dades Gorge, which was not far from the village. I (tried) to explain how beautiful her village was, and that we were happy to see the sky and stars.
We laughed when I stumbled over words, or couldn’t find the right one, but five minutes later I realized that we were having a conversation.
Some of the group had carried on walking and had turned around after a time. They rejoined those of us convering with the local woman and reminded us that dinner would soon be served. I explained we were late for dinner and thanked her for the conversation. I couldn’t remember how to accurately say “it was a pleasure to meet you”, but I must have said “merci” (thank you) a dozen times as we took our leave.
A simple conversation, spoken in broken French, brought me an unusual experience in a rural Moroccan village that remains etched in my memory. The smile on the woman’s face, as I described the area as beautiful, is something I would never forget.